Community, compassion & clothes: BMBAN’s pre-loved baby & kids market returns 22 October

In the heart of our vibrant community lies a group of unsung heroes who tirelessly work to make a difference, one family at a time. They are the BMBAN volunteers who pull together every 6 months or so to put together our pre-loved baby & kids market. A smashing success on every occasion, it is always a highlight of our calendar.

As we gear up for our last market of 2023, we want to celebrate and acknowledge the remarkable contributions of our volunteers. Mark your calendars for the return of BMBAN’s much-anticipated pre-loved baby and kid’s clothing market on 22 October 2023 – bookings are now open!

The Power of Volunteers

Before we delve into the excitement of our upcoming event, let’s take a moment to recognise the multiple heartbeats of BMBAN: our dedicated volunteers. Without their unwavering commitment and passion, we simply wouldn’t exist. They are the driving force behind our regular playgroups, social events, children’s activities, discounted activities, masterclasses, and the general support we provide to our members. They exemplify the true meaning of community, coming together to support parents of multiples on their unique journey.

Volunteering is not just a local phenomenon. In Australia, and around the world, volunteers play a pivotal role in the non-profit sector. According to recent statistics, nearly one in three Australians actively participates in volunteering, contributing approximately 743 million hours of their time annually. This translates to an estimated economic and social contribution of over $290 billion per year. These figures highlight the immense value that volunteers bring to organisations and communities, underscoring their importance in driving positive change.

Volunteering stats on the home front

We’ve been keeping our own statistics too (yes, we’re multi-talented!). Our last pre-loved market held in May this year produced some pretty impressive numbers:

  • 32 volunteers over the 2-day event
  • 76 volunteer hours
  • 63 member families were able to shop, entirely for FREE
  • A further 36 bags were sold to members of the public at the heavily-reduced rate of $10 per bag, extending our reach into the broader community.
  • A trailer-load of leftover clothing was delivered to 1-World Charity; with a selection of specific clothing delivered to our friends at Baby Give Back.

We are incredibly proud of the efforts from our last event, and we’re expecting more of the same this time around!

Challenges and Solutions

Of course, no endeavor is without its challenges, and volunteer-run organisations like ours are no exception. Coordinating schedules, managing resources, and maintaining enthusiasm can be demanding. But our volunteers are adept at finding solutions. They embody the spirit of teamwork, pooling their talents to overcome obstacles and keep BMBAN thriving.

One of the significant challenges we’ve faced is ensuring a steady stream of volunteers. The demands of modern life can sometimes make it challenging for individuals to commit to volunteering regularly. This means that every volunteer hour we receive is even more precious.

Join Us on 22 October

We cannot overstate the importance of volunteers in making our organization a success. Without their dedication, BMBAN’s story would be vastly different. That’s why we’re inviting you to join us on 22 October 2023 for an event that embodies the spirit of community, compassion, and clothes.

Our pre-loved baby and kid’s clothing market is a testament to what volunteers can achieve. They have put their heart and soul into organising this event, curating a collection of high-quality, gently used clothing for your little ones. The best part? It’s available at incredibly low prices, making it accessible to all families.

By attending our pre-loved clothing market, you’re not only getting fantastic deals on adorable outfits for your children; you’re also supporting BMBAN and its mission to provide invaluable support to parents of multiples on Brisbane’s Northside. The funds raised go back into our programs, ensuring that we can continue to make a positive impact in the lives of our members.

How to Get Involved

If you’re a parent of multiples or know someone who is, consider becoming a member of BMBAN. Our organisation is here to support you on your journey, and your membership helps us sustain our valuable programs. And don’t forget, members shop FOR FREE at the market!

Mark your calendar for 22 October 2023 – booking link is here! We can’t wait to see you all!

Multiples Mums, a poem.

BMBAN is wishing all mothers a very special Mother’s Day this year. We especially send our love to our expectant and first-time member mums, and congratulate them on their first Mother’s Day!

This poem is for all our multiples mums xx


Their eyes widen as they say not one, but two little heartbeats,
For very special mums maybe it’s even more (what a treat!).
You’re scared, amazed and happy, but overwhelmed, just a bit,
But then you start to wonder, where on Earth are they all going to fit?!

You research and prepare as much as you can,
But the bone-aching tiredness runs from your feet to your hands.
Emotions are wild, they seem to ebb and flow with the tide,
One minute you’re up, and the next? You want off the ride
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But it’s all ok we promise, go find your ticket and sit back down,
Because you will push through the pain. You will find your crown.
The time goes quickly, isn’t that what everyone says?
Well it does my friend, it does, so much that it scares.

Somewhere from within you will find your grit,
You may not know it at the time, but when you look back, you’ll see it!
You rally and wait and then here comes Baby A! Oh, and there is Baby B!
And for our truly blessed mummas, maybe a little baby C
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You may not get to see or hold them right away, but that’s all ok,
Remember, you’re a mum now, on this very special day.
Kisses and cuddles might be delayed, but never fear,
When you do finally get to hold them you will shed many happy tears
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At some point you will be ready to take your babies home,
Now this part, my friend, will be challenging on its own!
But you will survive, you will thrive, I promise!
Just remember to take it steady and be kind to yourself.

Your body needs time to heal, much longer than you might think,
But don’t forget to nourish your mind, your heart, and your spirit.
The days will be long, and the nights probably even longer,
But remember what you’ve already achieved- you’re so much stronger!

Someday soon those little babies will grow so much bigger,
The newborn scrunch disappears, and you watch your toddler giggle.
It’s probably only then that you will pause to reflect,
Jeez, what did I just conquer? I was an absolute wreck!

No you weren’t, not even a little bit, not even at all,
You became a very special mum, only few will get the call.
You became a mum of multiples, a mum of more,
A truly courageous mum, a mum we all adore.

Love, happiness & support: BMBAN celebrates Multiple Birth Awareness Week 2023

This week marks one of the most significant dates on the multiple birth community calendar – Multiple Birth Awareness Week!

This year, like every year, BMBAN celebrates the special moments unique to multiple birth families, and acknowledges the challenges faced by our members in navigating their unique family situations. BMBAN is incredibly proud of its history supporting multiple birth families in our community and helping multiple generations of multiples!

Life’s a little more fun with multiples

We asked our members to share some of the happiest moments they have of life with multiples, here’s some of their answers!

Watching them all play together and share cuddles!

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Watching how much their big brother loves them, and how much they love their big brother!

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Watching their big brother give them kisses and hugs, and helping to give their bottles when they were babies!

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Holding them in my arms together for the first time, which was many days after they were born.

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For many of our members, finding out they are expecting multiples is a daunting time in their lives, but filled with many of these special moments.

Life’s a little crazy with multiples

Look, there’s no denying life is a little crazier with multiples. Logistically, we’ve learned to negotiate many an ordinary task with some extraordinary measures!

Here’s our members comments on the craziest moments of multiples life:

The first time I took twin babies and a toddler to the playground by myself. Absolutely nuts!

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Flying to the UK with 3 kids under 2.5 years!

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The utter chaos of entertaining a toddler, feeding a newborn twin, and bouncing the other newborn twin!

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Trying to figure out how to fold the double pram with screaming babies in the back of the car.

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Chaotic, yes indeed!

Life is a little (or a lot) challenging with multiples

Ask any parent of multiples what the most common comment they get is, and we can almost guarantee it’s “I don’t know how you do it!”. Or, in some cases, if you’re a bit unlucky, we do get the odd “I’m glad it’s you, not me!”. Eek (not a great one FYI).

Here’s what our members had to say about the hardest moments of multiple birth life:

Parenting 3 kids under 2 during a global pandemic.

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Not meeting twin A for a number of days after her birth.

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A house of gastro whilst still breastfeeding twins.

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Trying to explain to my friends why my life was different and accepting that some of my friends would not be my friends anymore.

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These are few snapshots into the challenging moments our members face. But the multiple birth community now has some excellent data on the other strains placed on multiple birth families.

Do multiple birth families need more support?

Resoundingly, yes.

We are indebted to the Australian Multiple Birth Association Inc. (AMBA) who this week released their publication “Multiples Matter: Investigating the support needs of multiple birth families“. Commissioned to objectively analyse the impact of multiple births on families, it’s noted from their media release that:

  • the costs of twins and higher order multiples were almost 5 times and 13 times respectively, higher than those of a singleton up to the age of 1
  • pregnant women with multiples are more prone to virtually every pregnancy complication
  • 68% of multiples are born premature and admitted to SCN or NICU, and 50% have hospital stays of 6 days or more;
  • mothers of multiples have a lower breastfeeding rate, and are more likely to discontinue breastfeeding earlier than mothers of singletons;
  • 61% of parents of multiples experience mental health challenges in their first year;
  • parents of multiples are 9 times more likely to experience disabling exhaustion; and
  • 67% of parents of multiples said childcare in Australia was not affordable for their family.

It is amazing to have such up-to-date statistics on the key factors impacting upon our members, supporting what our members intrinsically knew about their own day-to-day experiences.

AMBA has released a petition to help achieve greater support for multiple birth families including increased financial support. If you’d like to support the work AMBA is doing in this space, you can find further details of the petition here.

A final word of celebration

BMBAN wishes all of our members, and everyone within the multiple birth community, a very happy Multiple Birth Awareness Week 2023!

Multiples families are mighty!